evryone put down you weapons
and for goodness sake
please stop fighting
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And I quote w/ as much seriousness as I can, Anchorman and Monty Python:
"Man, that escalated quickly. I mean, that really got outta hand."
"Let's not bicker and argue about who killed who. This is supposed to be a, happy occasion."
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And because no source is better than THE Source,
"Love your Neighbor as yourself."
I know it's over-used, but it's the truth.
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i'm trying!! but that requires cooperation from BOTH sides.
you're right, love. it's no use fighting. i love you so much that i never want to hurt you - and i've been hurting you by giving in to conflict. i'm SO sorry. i love you, Donald. i'll think before i blow up next time. thank you for putting up with me.
guys life is entirely to short to argue over such petty things. Let go, it doesnt require both sides to move on with your life. It requires YOU to make a concious effort to not let anyone else bother YOU. If someone says something about you, YOU dont have to retaliate, let it go and move on. When your about to die, do you want to look back and think, "God, I was a bi*** to her." or do you want to think, "Yeah, she really didnt like me, but I showed the compassion of a loving person." There is no more anyone can do. Not Donald, not I, not Brandon (He cant fix everything, even though you may think he can). There is a certain point where you have to grab your life and take control. Go to the source and fix it. I'm out.
well, they don't like "confrontation", Todd. or else i would
Kerry, love, here's the deal. This method has worked for me several time; granted it doesn't work for every situation but here goes. Not every situation has a resolution. There are some times when you just have to move on with your life. If they don't like you now, they aren't going to like you if you keep trying to force them to. No one likes confrontation, and the best way to show that this past incident isn't going to get you down, is by moving on with your life. So don't fight with her. It's not anyone elses problem but yours, and I'm sorry if this is coming across harsh, but sometimes thats how it goes. SO here it is plain, simple, and blunt: Get over it. Move on. Live your life, you don't get another one. SO stop getting angry, blowing things out of proportion or whatever.IF anything is said thats offensive, blow it off and let it go. people aren't going to be saying nice things about you all the time (yeah not even at church) so your going to have to deal with that someday; so you might as well start now.
Sorry Donald for preaching in your comment space.
i've got...legs! do you like....bread? ok...i'm going bye now!
hmm. Todd, dear, i think you're a bit lost because half of that made ZERO sense.
thanks anyway?
Yeah, youre right I probably am a bit lost, but thats because I'm 200 miles away from all the petty childish crap that has been going on back home (and thank some form of Holy Diety (whichever you prefer) for that). However here is the deal, plain and simple. IT DOES NOT TAKE BOTH SIDES TO RESOLVE A CONFLICT! IT TAKES AN EFFORT OF ONE PERSON TO GET THE...*junk* OVER IT AND MOVE ON!
So in short: SUCK IT UP! MOVE ON! I'm done arguing/attempting to offer any resolution on this matter, because basically its full of....*junk*....
yeah, i'm gonna ignore that because you're a bit late. it's resolved already.
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