"how do you act your age?"

Evryone.

Stop and take a deep breath.

Now listen:

Not evry person to walks up to and talks to another person is trying to flirt with, seduce, etc. that other person. So evryone ("evryone" being those to whom it concerns) stop freaking out. Over-possessiveness is not cool. Being concerned about one's welfare and holding someone accountable is one thing, going berserk and going painstakingly and obnoxiously out of the way to "show possession" (as-it-were) of that person to someone is quite another thing altogether. Use some tact, common sense, trust-- whatever works or fits the situation-- but blowing evrything out of proportion and automatically jumping to conclusions and assuming things is not the way to go. You're only going to hurt ppl and drive ppl away. Here's some consequences:
First: the person walking up to talk is going to be affected negatively by being accused of stuff, including and not limited to the thinking the accuser is harsh, judgemental, rude, etc. any or all of the above
Second: the accuser is seen by other third parties as aforementioned. The accuser could also possibly break down trust with ppl.
Third: (and possibly most important to the "evrybody") the accuser can hurt the person being talked to by showing obvious distrust by automatically assuming that the person being talked to is going to be "seduced" by the alledged "seducer"

So in short:

People (who are) need to stop jumping to conclusions
stop being judgemental
stop assuming the worst
etc.

ALSO:
Why on this freaking earth is there all this insulting and berating???
David and Todd keep calling Seth's girl an ox.
Kerry keeps calling Lindsay things I don't even want to type.
Sometimes there's stuff that ppl say about ppl 'cause it actually is true; but why the crap are ppl jumping to conclusions on stuff?!?
I'm guessing that Todd and David are calling her that 'cause she's not stick-figure thin, plus the added fact that she's Seth's girl. But c'mon. Really guys, get up and get to know ppl. I know you two, and I know that you're both going to be like, "Whatever" or "I can say what I want" or "She really is an ox" or any number of other rude or sarcastic things when you read this. And I've been really thinking as of late and I can't take it any more: grow freakin up and stop being like that. Being rude really isn't cool. Honestly. I know you two are going to think I'm stupid and probly call me or refer to me as many various unkind things; but I don't care. I do care about you two, and I really wish that you'd stop some of the stuff you do.
And Kerry, I know that you and Lindsay don't get along, but please try to be civil (that goes for you too Heather). Just because a girl is nice to guys doesn't mean she's projecting herself, as-it-were. I know you, and I know you know better than to just say things like that. I'm sure there's probly some reason that'd provoke you to say that, but you might want to get to know someone before you make final judgements about them. And please don't take this (if you read it) wrong. I'm not trying to bash you, but instead I'm trying to stop a big conflict before it starts. We all know what my lack of doing or saying anything has led to in the past, and I'm not letting it happen again.

DISCLAIMER!!!!:
Please please please don't think I'm attempting to be "holier-than-thou" and shove stuff in ppls faces. I don't even think I spelled "holier" right. Who knows, but in any case, I'm only saying all of this because it's stuff that concerns me. I only hope that any or all of you would do the same for me if I did something wrong, stupid, or out of line. Because, yes, I've done a bunch of stupid things. I've said a bunch of stupid things. I've said stuff about ppl I shouldn't have. I admit all of that; I feel bad for all of that. I hope that what I might say might open some eyes to things; some of which might not have been really thought about.

If you've read to here, thank you for your time. thank you for at least paying this much attention. Thank you for caring enough for what I might have to say to read it. All I can hope is that I didn't hurt anyone, and if I did, I hope that the one(s) hurt can forgive me or that the hurt was for the better not the worse.

I love you guys.